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White women dating Filipino men, does it happen? Does it work? Read about the cultural differences, the do’s and don’t the mistakes and the big, big fun of dating a romantic guy that is willing to serve you.

Do Filipinos know the word intimacy?

Do Filipinos know the word intimacy?

in·ti·ma·cy ˈin(t)əməsē’ noun – close familiarity or friendship; closeness. “the intimacy between a husband and wife” synonyms: closeness, togetherness, affinity, rapport, attachment, familiarity, friendliness, friendship, amity, affection, warmth, confidence; informal chumminess “the sisters reestablished their old intimacy” – a private cozy atmosphere. “the room had a peaceful sense of intimacy about it” – an intimate act, especially sexual intercourse. synonyms: sexual relations, (sexual) intercourse, sex, lovemaking; For a lot of Filipinos I have met intimacy means having a sex. But…

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Why I follow the ‘no contact’-rule after breaking up

Why I follow the ‘no contact’-rule after breaking up

Breakups never come easy. Whether you are the dumper or the dumpee, both hurt. And although the no contact rule is there for different reasons, I use it for my own specific reason. What is the ‘No Contact’- Rule? Everywhere you look on the internet you find the ‘no contact’- rule in combination with getting your ex back. People believe that 4-6 weeks (and some say even up to three months) without any contact whatsoever, will definitely get you your…

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Broken hearted in the Philippines

Broken hearted in the Philippines

Unlike many of the men moving to the Philippines I dod not move here to find love. Yet I did, for a while that is. When I came to the Island of Siquijor love found me. Being a happy single and traveling S. E. Asia, I was a little surprised by it. It gave me some choices. And after a short trip away from the Island and the man I fell in love with, I decided to change my lifestyle…

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Character of the Filipino man

Character of the Filipino man

After dating a few Filipino’s and comparing them to Western men I dare to say the Filipino man is quite a challenge. He is a confusing mix between dominance, narcissistic and hen-pecked, and I consider them being a selfish and caring romanticus. The guys I dates were absolute romantic and overwhelmingly caring while dating. They would promise me the moon and all the stars in the universe. Sitting next to me on a moonlit beach he would dream of a…

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When your Filipino ex says ‘I miss you’, what does he mean?

When your Filipino ex says ‘I miss you’, what does he mean?

Filipino men can be emotional and passionate. They love to throw drama. Specially when you break up with them. And messages will continue long after the initial break up. ‘Good morning’, ‘good evening’ and even ‘I miss you’. Now the first two are innocent and probably easy to avoid, but it is the ‘I miss you” message that holds the danger. We women like to validate ourselves on those words even if we are the ones that do the breaking…

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Is it okey when my Filipino Boyfriend asks for Money?

Is it okey when my Filipino Boyfriend asks for Money?

Today in Readers Ask Questions a questions from a Chinese woman living abroad. she is dating a Filipino also living abroad. Although he has a good income, on a regularly base he asks financial support from me. Is that okey for a man to do?, she asked me. Here is what I told her and what I think on the matter, after dating Filipino men myself. It is never okey for one person to depend on another person for endless…

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Breaking up with my Filipino boyfriend

Breaking up with my Filipino boyfriend

People on Facebook ask me in messenger whether I’m okey or not. Since I announced a little time out on Facebook. I’m okey. I have been better. I broke up with my Filipino boyfriend and I do not want to spill out my emotions on Facebook. Breaking up with someone is always painful, even if you are the one that makes the decision and speak the words. I hurt, my heart is broken, I struggle with the feelings of being…

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