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General tips on dating, Long distance, cross cultural, and the dating process.
How to handle your first date and the second. And all the days after that.

Sex and Travel, how do I as a solo female traveller stay safe

Sex and Travel, how do I as a solo female traveller stay safe

Exotic men, strange places, incognito status, maybe even, starry nights and a full moon….all ingredients for a romantic night are there when you travel. Travel takes you out of your comfort zone and right into your dare devil state of mind. After all as a solo female traveller you know your way around? Too much confidence and too much lonely nights can be very complicated to handle as a single on the road. Well at least for me it is….

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Bloggers and Language Barriers in Love Relationships

Bloggers and Language Barriers in Love Relationships

As a blogger I love to express myself, I use words, I paint imaginary pictures with words. I’m world famous for my long sentences and I take words literally, since that is what words mean, right? A lesson learned by me at the moment is that speaking too many words is rapidly diminishing the value of what is said. In my relationship i struggle with a language barrier. A huge one. And it frustrates me. So I did some research:…

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Nomads and friendship, love and sex

Nomads and friendship, love and sex

I’ve written articles about the nomad lifestyle. Why you should or should not start a life like mine. The pro’s and con’s of being always on the move and living out of a suitcase. I think for me the hardest one is the ‘always being a stranger’ and ‘no one committing to you because you leave anyway’ is the hardest parts of a nomadic life. I’m not a 24 year old backpacker fucking my way across the planet, in no…

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Why doesn’t he text me back?

Why doesn’t he text me back?

We women sure know how to go over a mans actions, don’t we? In our eagerness to be loved the same way we want to love a guy we feel connected with we can really get lost in our search for the true meaning of his actions and deeds, words and gestures.  Specially when you are in a cross cultural relationship it is difficult to read ‘the signs’ if there are any. And when being in a long distance relationship…

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Cross Cultural Relationships, can love conquer all?

Cross Cultural Relationships, can love conquer all?

Readers ask me questions, wether on my YouTube Channel, Facebook profile or through the contact form. From their questions usually grows a blog. This time the question was about cross cultural relationships and how to handle the differences, What you might run into as a mixed couple and how to avoid getting hurt over and over again when opening your heart to someone living in a different country and a different culture. I remember my first boyfriend, he was a…

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Is it common for Dutch men to visit the Red Light district?

Is it common for Dutch men to visit the Red Light district?

A while ago someone from India popped a message in my Facebook Messenger asking me about the infidelity of Dutch men and whether it is common for Dutch men to visit the Red Light district. Or to go to a prostitute and why would a man do such thing? This question coming from someone living in a country that has rape as 4th most crime on the crime list made me wonder. Why is this person bothered by the behavior…

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