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Do Filipinos know the word intimacy?

Do Filipinos know the word intimacy?

in·ti·ma·cy ˈin(t)əməsē’ noun – close familiarity or friendship; closeness. “the intimacy between a husband and wife” synonyms: closeness, togetherness, affinity, rapport, attachment, familiarity, friendliness, friendship, amity, affection, warmth, confidence; informal chumminess “the sisters reestablished their old intimacy” – a private cozy atmosphere. “the room had a peaceful sense of intimacy about it” – an intimate act, especially sexual intercourse. synonyms: sexual relations, (sexual) intercourse, sex, lovemaking; For a lot of Filipinos I have met intimacy means having a sex. But…

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The reason why I do not date an Expat

The reason why I do not date an Expat

The question came up on my YouTube Channel: Why do you date Filipino’s and not an expat. Here is my answer to that question. About the Expats Most of the men, if not all of them, come to the Philippines looking for a partner. They adore the exquisite beauty of the Filipina: Long dark hair and petite. A lot of those men add: adjustable, willing to please and submissive to that list. They have had their share of Western women,…

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Why I follow the ‘no contact’-rule after breaking up

Why I follow the ‘no contact’-rule after breaking up

Breakups never come easy. Whether you are the dumper or the dumpee, both hurt. And although the no contact rule is there for different reasons, I use it for my own specific reason. What is the ‘No Contact’- Rule? Everywhere you look on the internet you find the ‘no contact’- rule in combination with getting your ex back. People believe that 4-6 weeks (and some say even up to three months) without any contact whatsoever, will definitely get you your…

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Broken hearted in the Philippines

Broken hearted in the Philippines

Unlike many of the men moving to the Philippines I dod not move here to find love. Yet I did, for a while that is. When I came to the Island of Siquijor love found me. Being a happy single and traveling S. E. Asia, I was a little surprised by it. It gave me some choices. And after a short trip away from the Island and the man I fell in love with, I decided to change my lifestyle…

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Ex Girlfriends in the Philippines

Ex Girlfriends in the Philippines

As a guest in the Republic of the Philippines and talking to a lot of expats on different subjects, one topic always seems to pop-up: exes. In this article I mesmerize on the phenomenon that most of them do not seem to go exit. Some exes in the Philippines never seem to go exit They keep sending you messages on a daily basis, or weekly, or so irregularly that you have to remember who she was. And in some cases…

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Is it okey when my Filipino Boyfriend asks for Money?

Is it okey when my Filipino Boyfriend asks for Money?

Today in Readers Ask Questions a questions from a Chinese woman living abroad. she is dating a Filipino also living abroad. Although he has a good income, on a regularly base he asks financial support from me. Is that okey for a man to do?, she asked me. Here is what I told her and what I think on the matter, after dating Filipino men myself. It is never okey for one person to depend on another person for endless…

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Breaking up with my Filipino boyfriend

Breaking up with my Filipino boyfriend

People on Facebook ask me in messenger whether I’m okey or not. Since I announced a little time out on Facebook. I’m okey. I have been better. I broke up with my Filipino boyfriend and I do not want to spill out my emotions on Facebook. Breaking up with someone is always painful, even if you are the one that makes the decision and speak the words. I hurt, my heart is broken, I struggle with the feelings of being…

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