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Broken hearted in the Philippines

Broken hearted in the Philippines

Unlike many of the men moving to the Philippines I dod not move here to find love. Yet I did, for a while that is. When I came to the Island of Siquijor love found me. Being a happy single and traveling S. E. Asia, I was a little surprised by it. It gave me some choices. And after a short trip away from the Island and the man I fell in love with, I decided to change my lifestyle…

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Character of the Filipino man

Character of the Filipino man

After dating a few Filipino‚Äôs and comparing them to Western men I dare to say the Filipino man is quite a challenge. He is a confusing mix between dominance, narcissistic and hen-pecked, and I consider them being a selfish and caring romanticus. The guys I dates were absolute romantic and overwhelmingly caring while dating. They would promise me the moon and all the stars in the universe. Sitting next to me on a moonlit beach he would dream of a…

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When your Filipino ex says ‘I miss you’, what does he mean?

When your Filipino ex says ‘I miss you’, what does he mean?

Filipino men can be emotional and passionate. They love to throw drama. Specially when you break up with them. And messages will continue long after the initial break up. ‘Good morning’, ‘good evening’ and even ‘I miss you’. Now the first two are innocent and probably easy to avoid, but it is the ‘I miss you” message that holds the danger. We women like to validate ourselves on those words even if we are the ones that do the breaking…

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Life is a work in progress

Life is a work in progress

May was the month I broke up with my Filipino boyfriend. We are still friends, but I learned a few harsh lessons: to keep my heart closed since the day we broke up, for my ex BF is a smooth talker and makes a lot of promises he does not keep. And again I was reminded of the fact that I validate spoken words. I believe that when people speak, they mean what they say. And that is not always…

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Is it okey when my Filipino Boyfriend asks for Money?

Is it okey when my Filipino Boyfriend asks for Money?

Today in Readers Ask Questions a questions from a Chinese woman living abroad. she is dating a Filipino also living abroad. Although he has a good income, on a regularly base he asks financial support from me. Is that okey for a man to do?, she asked me. Here is what I told her and what I think on the matter, after dating Filipino men myself. It is never okey for one person to depend on another person for endless…

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The Difference between Filipino and Western Men

The Difference between Filipino and Western Men

At first glance the difference between Filipino and Western men is easy to sum up. Filipino men are smaller, slender and their dark appearance make them stand out among the Western men, which are tall with fair skin and they have a robust body. Once undressed you see more body-hair on caucasian men. But both can have huge belly’s. Filipino men don’t grow heavy beards, they shave not as much as Western men do. As much as Filipino women desire…

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Are white women attracted to Asian Guys

Are white women attracted to Asian Guys

In Readers Ask Questions today a question from a Filipino living in Canada. He approached me through Facebook messenger: Hi JC! I was wondering if I could ask you some very random questions… I think you’re the best to ask these So, I’ve been here in Canada for over a year now And I’ve been on a few dates.. entirely with Asians.. But just out of curiosity, I thought I might ask you… do you think the reason why I’ve…

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