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How to keep a Filipino man happy? 5 Firsthand Tips

How to keep a Filipino man happy? 5 Firsthand Tips

When you are in a cross cultural relationship you might have the feeling you are grasping at straws when it comes to understanding your partners needs. Some of those needs are culturally influenced, others are plain male needs, no problem with fulfilling the last part, but the first part dazzles me sometimes. Filipino women are way more submissive to family, household and even the husband, specially outside the house. I’m a kind of a outspoken person and I really have…

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I like a Filipino Guy

I like a Filipino Guy

In: Readers Ask Questions today a question of someone wondering how I came about falling in love with a Filipino man. And how does that work for me as a traveller and a white woman in Asia.  One thing is for sure: I did not come to the Philippines to find myself a husband. As a happy single traveller I was very content roaming around the islands. Until one day I fell in love and discovered that having someone in…

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Filipino men and love

Filipino men and love

I was a little prejudice about Filipino men, courtship and love. Starting of with a very bad example of how courtship in the Philippines happens I was reluctant to take another step. Lucky for me someone else took the step for me and was very persuasive on the matter. And now I find myself in a happy relationship and I realize I have so much to adjust my preconceived opinion, which was merely based on internet research and hear say….

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Being single for so long, it is hard to love me

Being single for so long, it is hard to love me

I read an article about being single for ever and how hard it is to love such a person and for the person to love back. It nailed my situation right on. I’m so scared of a few things: that he will leave me that he will stay that I will lose myself that we both love each other for all the wrong reasons And yet I love him, and I love me. And the discussion between my self-love and…

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Sex with a Filipino man

Sex with a Filipino man

The girls in My Facebook and on my YouTube Channel know I have been dating and I do get a lot of questions about my sex life. Now I do like to keep some parts of my life private. So this article is written in a general way: no names, no references and no specific guys mentioned in specific situations. Mainly this article is about my experience whit Filipino man, this might differ from yours. After all, love, sex and…

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Is Your Pinoy Ghosting You?

Is Your Pinoy Ghosting You?

The relationship or dating is going just fine. He text you every morning, every evening, makes plans with you to hang around, and all seems to be roses and peaches. You start to feel comfortable with him, and when he asks you to trust him, you decide to plunge in at the deep end and do so. Maybe you even spoke the L-word and are committed to an exclusive relationship like I was. And all of a sudden everything stops….

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Dating a Filipino, his ‘I love you’ is not your ‘I love you’

Dating a Filipino, his ‘I love you’ is not your ‘I love you’

So here you are, the guy is pursuing you and you are giving in, you went on a few dates. You like him. You like him a lot. But it is also very confusing. I know how intense the pursuing of a Filipino guy can be, and how much there is to like about them. Carrying your bag, opening doors, calling or texting you every morning and evening, making jokes when you are around, gosh Filipino guys can be so…

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