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Stay friends with your Ex, yes or no

Stay friends with your Ex, yes or no

In all love matters personal emotions are involved and 2 people. Answering love questions is tricky. Because the way I handle things might differ fromt the way you handle things. Many people advice on YouTube and websites and love matters and break ups are the most googled questions, so I guess we are all a bit puzzled every now and then by the hardship and/or magic of falling in and out of love. Even I sometimes search the internet, just…

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There are many more like him

There are many more like him

As her journey continues she realises that he is everywhere even physically bold head strong arms deep brown eyes flat nose He is all around her he is the pool-boy the guard at the mall the barber sitting outside his venue waiting for customers he is the dive instructor the hotel maintenance man the man sitting in a cafe watching the world pass by when eyes lock for a brief second before she turns away her head showing nothing but…

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Do Filipinos know the word intimacy?

Do Filipinos know the word intimacy?

in·ti·ma·cy ˈin(t)əməsē’ noun – close familiarity or friendship; closeness. “the intimacy between a husband and wife” synonyms: closeness, togetherness, affinity, rapport, attachment, familiarity, friendliness, friendship, amity, affection, warmth, confidence; informal chumminess “the sisters reestablished their old intimacy” – a private cozy atmosphere. “the room had a peaceful sense of intimacy about it” – an intimate act, especially sexual intercourse. synonyms: sexual relations, (sexual) intercourse, sex, lovemaking; For a lot of Filipinos I have met intimacy means having a sex. But…

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Why I follow the ‘no contact’-rule after breaking up

Why I follow the ‘no contact’-rule after breaking up

Breakups never come easy. Whether you are the dumper or the dumpee, both hurt. And although the no contact rule is there for different reasons, I use it for my own specific reason. What is the ‘No Contact’- Rule? Everywhere you look on the internet you find the ‘no contact’- rule in combination with getting your ex back. People believe that 4-6 weeks (and some say even up to three months) without any contact whatsoever, will definitely get you your…

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Broken hearted in the Philippines

Broken hearted in the Philippines

Unlike many of the men moving to the Philippines I dod not move here to find love. Yet I did, for a while that is. When I came to the Island of Siquijor love found me. Being a happy single and traveling S. E. Asia, I was a little surprised by it. It gave me some choices. And after a short trip away from the Island and the man I fell in love with, I decided to change my lifestyle…

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Ex Girlfriends in the Philippines

Ex Girlfriends in the Philippines

As a guest in the Republic of the Philippines and talking to a lot of expats on different subjects, one topic always seems to pop-up: exes. In this article I mesmerize on the phenomenon that most of them do not seem to go exit. Some exes in the Philippines never seem to go exit They keep sending you messages on a daily basis, or weekly, or so irregularly that you have to remember who she was. And in some cases…

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Character of the Filipino man

Character of the Filipino man

After dating a few Filipino’s and comparing them to Western men I dare to say the Filipino man is quite a challenge. He is a confusing mix between dominance, narcissistic and hen-pecked, and I consider them being a selfish and caring romanticus. The guys I dates were absolute romantic and overwhelmingly caring while dating. They would promise me the moon and all the stars in the universe. Sitting next to me on a moonlit beach he would dream of a…

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